Dating a pakistani guy
Before you try to understand the hows and whys of Halal Dating, bring God into the equation.
Unless you ask them what actually happens, they won't tell you. And since you are still reading, I'll explain as best I can.
Muslims believe in One God and therefore live by a moral code they believe is set organically by Him.
All of the explanation below goes back up to the top.
Please remember this whenever you're faced with a Muslim conundrum. Some Muslims outright say it 'I'm dating' and they are, in the complete boy-meets-girl-third-base sense. This entire dating culture of meeting someone for only sex, for only a short-term relationship, is not the ideal or healthiest way to go about finding a partner-in-crime.
Loving God and following His ultimate guidance is the sole reason and goal in Muslim belief. The more real answer is that yes, a lot of Muslims do. This type of dating to see if it's going anywhere or just stringing people along with heartache is not in Islamic law.
The reason for this is that Muslim priorities are long-term and originate from God.
Of course anyone else who is looking to settle down will have that in common with Muslims.
Things like self-preservation, discipline and protection, do.What people here in Britain call dating, Muslims prefer to use 'courting'.And while a date is usually focused on 1) Sex 2) New encounters and 3) Good times, Islamic courting has different priorities altogether.The first goal of Islamic courting is not sex, it's marriage.Sexual relationships, or any physical relationship between a man and woman for that matter, is not the initial experience because any physical act requires a spiritual attachment.
In Islamic law, a physical relationship is initiated with a marriage () to gain God's blessings.