Dating outside my race
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Its potential to ease my sadness with 30 miles of punishing pace outweighs the risks.
It’s February 2013, the bleak middle of the most miserable winter of my life.
Just a year and a half ago, my wife, Madeleine, and I, along with our two children, were living in the Bay Area, with a big move ahead of us.
We had committed to relocating from our home near San Francisco, where I grew up, to Texas, where she’s from.
For me, the decision to leave everything I knew behind was hard, but the timing felt right. We traveled and had fun together, and of course we enjoyed our kids.
Madeleine had long wanted proximity to family and old friends, and over the previous two decades she’d moved around plenty for my sake. During 18 years of marriage, we’d sometimes struggled, and more than once we’d discussed splitting up. I wrote from an office and came home to dinner on the stove. The Tilin family arrived in Austin in the summer of 2011, when central Texas was baking under record-breaking heat.